对失败的看法
在我们的生活中，从过去的考试中，恋爱中，婚姻，直到职业中，我们会遇见很多的麻烦和失败。
那么，我们不得不说，在中国的抗挫折教育这一块还是有待与改善的。
人生不可能永远风平浪静，那么，失败难免心情也不好。
在我看来，经过一些切身的体会。失败对我来说，可乃是家常便饭。而我就是那个一直走来走去，走不出迷宫的人。用温州一家人里的话来说，嘿，我最近突然顺了，还有点不习性了。由于一直以来倒霉倒惯了。呵呵。~-~
从另一方面，我还想说一下，对于各种身体疾病的看法，有一些人生病以后，无论什么病，糖尿病，高血压，癌症以后，就会一蹶不振，其实，人么，无非就一个乐观的心态。包括一些人自己残疾，都会一蹶不振。其实，我说难听点，你今天得了高血压，吃点药，努力运动，改善饮食，都可能变成了服用少量药物，可能只一个维持量，也有一天可能摆脱药物。请保持一个积极乐观的心态。自己不把任何疾病，残疾当成是一种缺陷，就会慢慢的好起来，我再说难听点了，你残疾，一辈子不能结婚又怎么样？你有一些疾病难道你就不活了？而且，其实，事实上，上帝冥冥之中都有安排，依然有人愿意和残疾人结婚，依然有人愿意和癌症晚期病人结婚，这其实一个充满爱的全球，何不活得给自己一点空间，对自己大度一点呢？这不算是一种失败。
那么，我们都要正确的看待失败，失败在所难免，不管是生活也好，恋爱也罢，唯一不变的是，我们不要忘记，这个全球应该是由爱，大度，领会而组成的，而不是恨。
On the failure of view
In our life, from past exam, love, marriage, until in the work, we will meet a lot of trouble and failure.
So, we have to say, in frustration education China this piece or and to beimproved.
Life may not always be Everything is going smoothly. failed, so, inevitably mood is not good.
In my opinion, after some personal experience. Failure to me, but it is homely food. And I’m always walked around, get out of the maze of people. WithWenzhou one family in the words, hey, I recently suddenly Shun, there are points used. Because it has been since luck inverted accustomed. Ha ha. ~ – ~
On the other hand, I also want to say, for a variety of physical illness perceptions,there are some sick after, no matter what disease, diabetes, hypertension,cancer, will falter, in fact, people do, is nothing more than an optimistic attitude.Including some people own disability, will recover. In fact, I said bluntly, today youhave hypertension, take some medicine, hard exercise, diet, may become low doses of drugs, may be just a maintenance dose, also may one day get rid ofdrugs. Please keep a positive and optimistic attitude.He does not see any illness, disability as a defect, it will slowly get better, I saybluntly, your disability, life can not get married then? You have some diseasesdon’t you live? But, in fact, in fact, have God supernaturally arrangement, still someone willing to marry and disabled people, there are still people who want to get married and in patients with advanced cancer, this is actually a world filled with love, why not live to give yourself a little space, a little tolerance for yourself?This is not a failure.
So, we must correctly treat failure, failure can hardly be avoided, whether life is good, love making, the only constant is, we don’t forget, the world should be composed of love, tolerance, understanding and composition, not hate.
